I've been observing the female mind while living among them in their natural habitat and I have been shaping and formulating an interesting theory.
The majority of girls will tell you that they get along better with men than they do women. I believe the same is found for men.
So this begs the question, If every girl claims that they get along better with guys, then why not get together as an entire gender and decide to stop whatever the reasons are for such behavior.
"Girls are mean to each other gossip behind each others backs" every girl will tell you this, every girl hates it and yes every girl does it (obviously there are exceptions to every rule)
and maybe its because I am seeing the situation and world through the lens of a man but to me this problem seems very fix able. It starts with you... I'll try to put this into perspective, this is how I believe the scenario plays out...
me: "ugh someone slashed my tires"
Brian: "that sucks dude"
me: "yeah I'm going to slash someone else's tires because I hate it when it happens to me I'll in turn pass this misfortune and pain to someone else"
Brian: "you totally should in no way does that not make sense nor is it a bad idea"
Girls are mean to each other and none of them like it...so stop?
7 years ago
It's mainly jealousy. Not every girl will admit it but a lot will. We're always in competition with each other for a guy or for other girl friends. And for some reason our instinct is to belittle the other so we can feel better about ourselves even though it never works. Nice theory, but it's just not going to happen. It's in our nature to act that way. Not to say we can't fight it, but it's not going to go away.
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